Sometimes in life and in business, we encounter things that may offend us or that are simply hard to ignore.
Somebody might say you've got a problem, or that something about you is broken. That you are damaged and in need of fixing, some ridiculous theory explains all the problems you supposedly have, and we've got to stop doing it and find a cure for your ass and quick.
And it's fine for them to think that about themselves, if they are similar to you, but you just get so mad that they think it about you. There's nothing wrong with you, why are they saying that? Who are they to say such things? Even worse, what if people believe them? What if everyone starts treating you like a leper?
The important thing is to ignore them. Reacting to negativity breeds more negativity. It is a vicious cycle of hate that only serves the message that you are indeed broken. That's just no way to go about living.
Instead, breed an ecosystem of positive thinking. There are certainly others out there that are like you, who also dont find a thing wrong about them. Seek them out, network with them, create an alternative to the message of fear and hatred spread by others. As your positive ecosystem grows, the power of fear, uncertainty, and doubt fades into the dust, and all that remains is the truth.
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